Author: Joelle Casteix

  • “He created the group to find children to abuse”

    “He created the group to find children to abuse”

     

     

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    Children’s Theater Company of Minneapolis has a problem that is never going to go away.

    Yesterday, a victim of sexual abuse filed the fourth abuse and cover-up lawsuit against the theater company.

    The latest civil lawsuit, brought by a woman who is now an academic advisor at the University of Minnesota, charges that Stephen Adamczk sexually abused her in the early 1980s.

    Other lawsuits charge that former employee Adamczak and former director John Clark Donahue sexually abused children who were involved in theater productions.

    Donahue, who was arrested in 1983, admitted to sexually abusing at least 16 children. Adamczak was acquitted at trial and died in 2007.

    This latest case will likely unearth evidence that the criminal jury was never able to see.

    Children’s Theater of Minnesota is fighting all of the lawsuits.

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    I have pretty strong opinions about performing arts organizations whose founders are serial sexual molesters. Shocking, I know.

    Here in Orange County, CA, we have The All-American Boys Chorus, founded by serial child predator Richard T. Coughlin. Coughlin was very good at attracting voice coaches who molested kids, too.

     

    A group founded by a man who wanted a steady stream of boys to sexually abuse
    A group founded by a man who wanted a steady stream of boys to sexually abuse

     

    All of the “good work” that a chorus or a theater group claims to do cannot erase the pain of the dozens of children who were hurt by Coughlin, Giese, Donahue, or Adamczak. I believe both groups should be disbanded.

    In fact, anyone who cares about the welfare of children in the performing arts would want the groups disbanded. (Then start a new group, with a new board, built on a foundation of child safety and education.)

    The performing arts can do wonderful things for children. But at the same time, we have to remember that the arts are a system based on audition, talent, favoritism, money, and power.

    Children who already ache for attention will ache even more in a performing arts environment. Good teachers know that and make sure to be EXTRA vigilant when it comes to the physical, emotional and mental health and safety of the children in their care.

    I know about bad organizations because I was one of those kids who ached for attention and wanted to perform. And because cover-up was more important than child safety, I paid the price.

    So did Donohue’s victims. From Fox 9 (Minneapolis):

    Uncompromising and undeniably talented, Donahue had an almost cult-like following. Young performers sought his praise and desperately wanted to be part of his inner circle. But the starring roles, the attention and adoration, sometimes came at an unforgivable price.

    Who would want to work for an organization that was founded by a serial child predator (and just so that he could have a steady stream of children to sexually abuse)?

    Who would want to send their children there?

    And before you write in the comments about how “wonderful” these two groups are, remember: any “success” or “positive” aspects of the group were built on the carcasses of sexually abused children.

    Sticking your head in the sand and saying “things are different now” will never change that.

    We’ll learn more as the lawsuits unfold.

     

     

    *** “The definitive child safety manual” – The Well-Armored Child ebook (Nook and Kindle) is on sale for $.99 – until January 18, 2016 ***

     

  • How do you solve a problem like Nienstedt?

     

    Disgraced former St. Paul and Minneapolis Bishop John Nienstedt
    Former St. Paul and Minneapolis Bishop John Nienstedt

     

    What do you do with a disgraced bishop, whose involvement in the cover-up of child sexual abuse led to his being forced out (as well as a bankruptcy for his Archdiocese and criminal charges against the organization)?

    Put him in a parish, apparently.

    Yesterday, former St. Paul and Minneapolis Chancellor (and whistleblower) Jennifer Haselberger published the parish bulletin from St. Philip Catholic Church in Battle Creek, Michigan.

    John Nienstedt is going to be their new fill-in parish priest.

    What does this say to the faithful at that parish? We hope you don’t notice, but we are passing our trash to you. We know you go to church for spiritual growth and healing, but we hope you can just “forgive” the fact that we stuck you with a guy who covered-up sex abuse, has been accused himself, and who led his archdiocese down a criminal path of disaster.

    In fact, I bet that Kalamazoo Bishop Paul Bradley and Twin Cities Archbishop Bernard Hebda are going to use the rhetorical device of “forgiveness” to shame Battle Creek Catholics into accepting Nienstedt.

    Nienstedt shouldn’t be a priest anymore. He blew it. If Archbishop Hebda wants to throw Nienstedt a bone and let him keep the collar (and the pension), Nienstedt should live a life of quiet prayer and penance.

    And Nienstedt has no right or standing to act as a spiritual leader of anyone.

    I hope Kalamazoo Catholics punch back twice as hard … by closing their wallets.

     

     

    *** “The definitive child safety manual” – The Well-Armored Child ebook (Nook and Kindle) is on sale for $.99 – until January 18, 2016 ***

  • Why can’t anyone tell the truth about Fr. Bruce Wellems?

    Why can’t anyone tell the truth about Fr. Bruce Wellems?

     

    Fr. Bruce Wellems leading a December 2015 Posada procession at his parish ... when he's not supposed to be acting as a priest - (Photo credit Chicago Tribune)
    Fr. Bruce Wellems leading a December 2015 Posada procession at his parish … where he’s not supposed to be acting as a priest – (Photo credit Chicago Tribune)

     

    On Sunday, the Chicago Tribune ran a page-one piece about the case of Fr. Bruce Wellems, a Chicago priest who admitted to luring a seven-year-old boy from basketball games and then sexually abusing him multiple times during the course of a year. Wellems was an older teenager at the time.

    Did the Claretians (the religious order to which Wellems belongs) adhere to their promises of transparency and tell Catholics about Wellems?

    No … in fact, Claretian officials ordered their priests to destroy emails about Wellems and his crimes.

    In 2014, did the Archdiocese of Los Angeles adhere to their promises of transparency and give parishioners in San Gabriel the correct information about Wellems? Did they post information about Wellems’ admission on their website, the parish website, or attempt to reach out to other potential victims?

    No. They made one announcement from the pulpit, and then kept parishioners in the dark about the allegations. In fact, the Archdiocese of Los Angeles and Archbishop Jose Gomez allowed parishioners to believe that the allegations and admissions stemmed from a “consensual dating relationship.”

    Gomez also allowed Wellems to tell the local media that allegations “had no factual basis …”, even though he had admitted to his crimes to church officials.

    Then, after quietly booting Wellems from the Archdiocese of LA, Archbishop Gomez allowed the priest to take Los Angeles teenage marimba musicians (from the parish where he had just been booted) to Florida “on tour.” And of course, parents didn’t know that Wellems had sexually abused a child.

    When Wellems was sent back to Chicago in 2015, Archbishop Blase Cupich and his review board reinstated the priest for active ministry. Did they tell parishioners that Wellems had been jettisoned from LA for violating zero tolerance? Did they bother to meet with Wellems’ victim?

    No.

    Wellems was only removed from ministry when an advocate (that would be ME) called Cook County and reported what the Archdiocese of Chicago already knew.

    So, according to Cupich, Wellems is okay to be an admitted sex-offending priest in a parish, as long as outside agencies didn’t know about it.

    Speaking of announcements … are there any announcements on Wellems’ parish’s web page about his status or his admitted crimes?

    No.

    So, now that Wellems is not allowed to “wear a collar” and “act as a priest,” is he living quietly in a location away from children?

    No. He’s acting as a priest for the media and leading parish functions.  In addition to the picture above (you know, the one where he’s leading a December parish Posada procession and mugging for photos for the Chicago Tribune, there’s THIS):
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    (yeah, that’s my Facebook. And yes, that’s an ad for a diet plan. Because I need one.)

     

    And for parishioners to learn about Wellems’ past, they have to read the Chicago Tribune.

    In fact, why is Wellems’ victim the only one telling the truth?

    Here is the big question: why is Archbishop Cupich STILL telling half-truths about the status of Fr. Bruce Wellems and keeping parishioners in the dark? If Cupich is fine with Wellems being an active priest and decided to take the (reckless and dangerous) route of “forgiveness,” then why doesn’t he just SAY so? Why all of this cover-up and double-talk?

    We should all question whether Cupich is fit for leading the Chicago Archdiocese. Because he certainly doesn’t know how to enforce Zero Tolerance, transparency, compassion, or truth.

     

     

     

  • SNOW!

    That's totally me. Can't you tell?
    That’s totally me. Can’t you tell?

    Totally off topic, but since it’s my blog, it’s my place for celebration!

    I live in Southern California. After more than 5 years of BAD local skiing, the SNOW is BACK.

    I’ll be at Mountain High on Friday. You know it’s good when even our junker local mountains are covered in the white stuff.

    Equipment update: I put in three days in Heavenly in December, and after feeling like I was going to lose fingers, I upgraded to new Outdoor Research Women’s Southback Gloves.

    Maybe the holes in my old gloves should have been a clue. We will see if the new ones live up to the expert reviews. My kid and I are also heading to Park City next week, so the gloves (and my legs) will get a good workout.

     

     

     

     

  • News Event – January 3, 2016 – LA priest admits abuse, Archdiocese misleads parishioners

     

    LA Archbishop Gomez: Misleading parishioners, breaking promises of transparency
    LA Archbishop Gomez: Misleading parishioners, breaking promises of transparency. 

    NEWS EVENT: Victims to leaflet mass attendees

    LA Priest admits he repeatedly abused a child 

    But Catholic officials let him work in parishes

    In 2014, they “quietly removed” him from LA church, misled parishioners about cause

    And they insisted that incriminating documents be destroyed

    Now, despite “zero tolerance” policy, he may be put back on the job 

    What: 

    As Catholics enter and leave mass, sex abuse victims and their supporters will hand out leaflets that show LA Catholic officials:

    — quietly removed a priest in 2014 who admitted sexually abusing a child, and

    — mislead parishioners about the priest’s crimes.

    The fliers urge Catholics to demand that LA’s archbishop:

    — reach out to families who were endangered and church-goers who were duped by LA Catholic officials, and

    — publicly disclose everything they know about this sex abusing priest and all sex-offending clerics.

    When:

    Sunday, January 3 at 10:30 am

    Where:

    Outside of the LA Cathedral of Our Lady of the Angels, 555 W Temple St (at Hill), Los Angeles

    Who: 

    Five to six adults who were sexually abused as children who are members of SNAP, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAPnetwork.org), the nation’s largest support group for people who have been sexually abused in religious or institutional settings.

    Why:

    A new page one Chicago Tribune story reveals that a former Los Angeles priest admitted to sexually abusing a seven-year-old. Local church officials kept LA Catholics in the dark about allegations, and then allowed him to work in another parish.

    http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/breaking/ct-chicago-priest-past-abuse-met-20160102-story.html

    Fr. Bruce Wellems acknowledges that when he was around 16, he repeatedly sexually assaulted a seven year old. Catholic church officials kept silent about Fr. Wellems’ admission for years and kept him on the job. Both actions, SNAP contends, violate an allegedly binding national abuse policy that mandates “zero tolerance” of abuse and “transparency” in abuse cases.

    Until 2014, Fr. Wellems was a priest at the San Gabriel Mission. Then Los Angeles officials learned of the abuse reports. Although they sent him back to Chicago, LA Archbishop Jose Gomez and other church officials didn’t publicly disclose the allegations on their website, the parish website, or any other sources. They also misled parishioners, claiming that Fr. Wellems had not abused a child but faced allegations from a “consensual dating relationship.” http://www.pasadenastarnews.com/social-affairs/20140910/san-gabriel-priests-past-misconduct-detailed-in-letters-called-smoking-gun

    In a bizarre twist, when SNAP disclosed Fr. Wellems’ past, the priest blasted SNAP, saying that the group had no factual basis for the allegations. He claimed the group was hurting parishioners by exposing his crimes. http://www.pasadenastarnews.com/social-affairs/20140910/san-gabriel-priests-past-misconduct-detailed-in-letters-called-smoking-gun

    According to the new Chicago Tribune article, Fr.  Wellems lured the child away from basketball games, snuck him into his home, and molested him on numerous occasions.

    Members of SNAP believe that this lack of transparency and cover-up may be only the tip of the iceberg. They also fear that since Fr. Wellems covered up his past, there may be more victims who are suffering in shame and silence.

    “If LA archdiocesan staff are misleading parishioners about Fr. Wellems’ past, what else are they covering up?” said Joelle Casteix, SNAP Western Regional Director. “Gomez has promised transparency, but we know that’s not the case. It’s clear that the supposed ‘changes’ in the church are nothing but lip service.”

    SNAP is also upset that Chicago church officials think it’s okay for Wellems to still act as a priest. In August, Fr. Wellems moved up in the church hierarchy when he was elected to the Claretians’ new five-person national Provincial Council, a position he still apparently holds. http://www.claretiansusa.org/our-council/

    “You wouldn’t invite Josh Duggar to babysit your child. Why should we give Wellems—who criticizes people who expose him and who admits to covering up his abusive past—the benefit of the doubt? Catholic church officials in LA and Chicago should be ashamed and embarrassed. And parents everywhere should be on notice,” Casteix said.