Author: Joelle Casteix

  • Mother Teresa: Sainthood and the Almighty Dollar

     

    Last week, the Vatican announced that Mother Teresa will be made a saint sometime in May 2016.

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    The Macedonian nun founded the Order of the Missionaries of Charity, a religious order whose mission is to help the poor.

    When the sainthood announcement was made, critics denounced the decision, citing the fact that she sought health care in the US (while saying the poor “accept their suffering“), her alleged misappropriation of money, and the nun’s close relationships with violent dictators.

    And then there’s the whole miracle thing, which I always find a bit dubious, especially in the Internet age.

    But this is all irrelevant when it comes to making her a saint.

    Why?

    Because the sainthood of Mother Teresa has nothing to do with holiness, her work in India, miracles (dubious or not), or the betterment of mankind and the Catholic faithful. It boils down to MONEY. Let’s face it: Mother Teresa is a cash cow.

    Making Mother Teresa a saint will do the exact same thing that making JPII a saint accomplished: Billions of dollars in donations for Catholic coffers. Billions. And these donations will not only be coming from developed nations—they will be coming from the poorest areas of Catholicism, because the poor were the focus of her work.

    The money won’t stop there.

    Soon, we will be seeing her face on merchandise (Vatican sanctioned or not), Catholic appeal brochures, church bulletins, and cathedral banners. Her name and legacy will be invoked in homilies, used to encourage “sacrifice,” and publicized to widen the appeal of her and Catholicism as a whole.

    And because no one knows the value of propaganda like the Vatican, making Mother Teresa a saint sooner rather than later ensures the buy-in of the current generation—who will participate in the excitement. The Vatican wants “good buzz.” Waiting longer to make her a saint means that less people will remember her and require that the church educate younger generations about her work and legacy. That’s an excitement killer.

    There’s another big Vatican side benefit to Mother Teresa’s sainthood: Sainthood shuts down criticism. It’s tough for survivors and advocates to criticize John Paul II’s involvement in the cover up of child sexual abuse when we keep having to refer to him as “Saint JPII.” We are seen as “attacking the faith” instead of criticizing a man and his actions. The same will most likely happen to Mother Teresa’s critics.

    Not that that should stop them. It didn’t stop us …

     

     

  • The Carrot, the Stick, and what two SOL reform initiatives are missing …

     

    The Carrot: Money8TxrGXaac

     

    Last week, the US Senate proposed a bill that would give states money if they enacted legislation that extended or eliminated unexpired statutes of limitation for child sexual abuse.  (In other words, if your time is up, it’s up. But if not, you could have your statute extended or eliminated.)

    The bill’s language does not differentiate between civil and criminal laws.

    According to the bill:

    There is authorized to be appropriated to carry out this title $40,000,000 for each of fiscal years 2016 through 2025.

    Is that enough to get states on board? We will have to see.

    Read the full text here.

     

    The Stick: Going to the Votersstick_0

    After CA Governor Jerry Brown vetoed TWO bills that would have extended crime victims’ rights and exposed child predators, one man is taking the issue straight to the voters.

    In California, a sex abuse victim (who rose to fame after being acquitted of beating up his priest perpetrator) has received the CA Secretary of State’s approval to gather signatures for a ballot initiative that would eliminate California’s civil and criminal statutes of limitations (going forward) for child sexual abuse:

    From the Mercury News:

    The initiative written by the 48-year-old San Francisco man would wipe out the legal deadline barring prosecutors from filing criminal charges against child molesters and victims from suing them after a certain period of time. It would apply only to children molested after its adoption, not to Lynch and others like him.

    You can read more about William Lynch and his initiative here.

     

    So why am I so cranky?

    While both of these initiatives need your support, they don’t go far enough.

    My take: For any law to expose predators on the street RIGHT NOW, the law must be retroactive—that is, it must allow older victims of abuse to come forward and be allowed to meet the burden of proof and use the civil courts. We know this kind of law works. We have seen its success in Minnesota, Hawaii, Delaware, and California (although California desperately needs a second window to help victims—it’s a long story).

    Hopefully, in the light of recent news in the Bill Cosby cases—Cosby is suing some of his accusers for defamation, we will see more broad-based support for giving older victims their rights, too.

    I wrote an op-ed about it here.

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    And coming soon: my review of Great is the Truth: Secrecy, Scandal, and the Quest for Justice at the Horace Mann School. Spoiler: I love it. So go ahead and buy it.

  • A perv priest and a public nuisance case: NY in the spotlight

    A perv priest and a public nuisance case: NY in the spotlight

     

    Two unrelated cases in New York State are going to test Catholics’ faith in their leadership.

    The rest of us are going to get an unprecedented look at how NY church leaders handle cases of sexual abuse.

     

    Perv Priest Fr. Peter Miqueli (not my neighbor)
    Perv Priest Fr. Peter Miqueli (not my neighbor)

     

    Case number one is dominating the headlines – I mean, how often do you see this:

    ‘Sex slave’ priest who ‘stole from church for BDSM with his master’ railed against gays and lesbians and called parishioners ‘sinful’, congregation claims

    The story is lurid and new details are being leaked every day. But here’s the meat of the story: the “sex slave priest” Fr. Peter Miqueli is being accused by worshippers of stealing millions to pay for his BDSM “boy toy” and their very icky antics.

    But the REAL news hasn’t been released yet: I predict that when the always-fatal “drip, drip, drip of information” is fully underway, we are going to learn WHAT NY Cardinal Timothy Dolan knew about the perv priest and WHEN he knew it … and that Dolan knew a whole lot more (a whole lot sooner) than he says he did.

    (As a side note, the perv priest is the dopplegänger of my neighbor. We’re keeping an eye out)

    Case number two is not in the headlines …yet. But the effects of the case are going to change the way that some New Yorkers look at child sexual abuse in their dioceses.

     

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    The Supreme Court of the State of New York has decided that a public nuisance lawsuit against the Diocese of Rockville Centre can proceed. The lawsuit was brought by a Long Island girl who says she was sexually abused by Fr. Gregory Yackyshyn in 2003, when she was eight years old.

    A year earlier in 2002, the Suffolk County Supreme Court Grand Jury issued a report of its investigation into the Diocese of Rockville Centre.

    The report concluded that “officials in the diocese failed in their responsibility to protect children.” The report went on to say that their actions “were more than simple incompetence. Diocesan officials agreed to engage in conduct that resulted in the prevention, hindrance and delay in the discovery of criminal conduct by priests.”

    It gets worse. In 2004, the diocese disclosed that they knew there were 66 sex-offending priests in the Diocese of Rockville Centre.

    The problem? THEY WOULDN’T RELEASE ANY NAMES. No one was told who these guys were. They could have been anyone.

    So what does this public nuisance case allow? Well, the diocese is going to have to pony up names … and documents. And it’s going to be ugly.

    In Minnesota, where other public nuisance cases have proceeded, dozens of previously unknown predator priests have been exposed—sending shockwaves through the Catholic community, who thought that they could trust their bishops.

    My prediction for Rockville Centre? Lots of new names of predator priests, lots of enablers exposed, maybe even a few resignations of top diocese officials … and a big re-awakening of the SOL reform movement in that state.

     

    … and if you want more to read, my new book THE POWER OF RESPONSIBILITY is FREE on Amazon. But only for a short time. Download it now.

     

  • The Power of Responsibility is yours …

    For free on Amazon, that is!

    The Power of Responsibility: Six Decisions That Will Help You Take Back Happiness and Create Unlimited Success—based on my TEDxPasadenaWomen talk—is now available. And the best part is that it’s free!

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    This short (under 2-hour) read blossomed from how I learned to use the power of responsibility to take back my life and find happiness and peace after being sexually abused as a child in the Catholic Church.

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